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I'm a StepMom...hear me R*O*A*R!!

In the book The Stepmom's Guide to Simplifying You Life there is a part where I am to write a short paragraph about who I am and what defines me to others. I am to "jot down" the answers as if I am talking to a friend over coffee...

I'm a woman who loves ______________ and _____________ and _______________. I believe in _____________ and ___________. I find great enjoyment in ____________ and ____________. I cannot tolerate ______________ and _____________. I am _________________ and _____________ and ___________________________. I want to improve __________________. More than anything, I want _______________ and _________________.

Then it goes on to say "So were you able to fill in the blanks completely, without breaking a sweat? If not, you soon will, b/c living in a stepfamily, you'll come to rely more and more on who you really are. You'll continually deepen what you know about yourself as you grow in your role. You may have to study and wrestle and work hard for quite a while to discover the deepest truths about yourself, but this paragraph is a good start."

Notice: I still have blanks to fill.

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  1. AnonymousFebruary 14, 2010 at 3:44 PM

    OH SHIT. That's a lot of info! We need to chat!

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  2. KenjLovesSweatshirtsFebruary 16, 2010 at 1:53 PM

    should i fill the blanks for you?

    snacks Will beer. God Chocolate. Reading Singing. Stupidity Attitude. fun cute organized. my health. Money Booze.
    :)

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